23 Apr 2016

Books. What I think about the books I read. January - April Edition.

Dear fellow book lovers,

Following my blog post on New Books, i am presenting to you below the books I read so far
and a small glimpse of what I am reading at the moment.

Books I read and Iam currently reading.
Don't be fooled by the small pile, there are quite a lot of books on Kindle.

It is the first book I read on my kindle back in January and I started reading it because I thought
a friend of mine read it and liked it. Eventually it turned out she was talking about another
psychology book, because I am pretty bad at remembering new names. Nonetheless I
persevered and fought until the end of this book.
To give you a bit of a background, Stephen R Covey was a celebrated psychologist and
trainer - he worked with IBM and other big corporations to help them build and deliver trainings
about corporate culture and efficiency.
This book tries to detach itself from all the other superficial self-help books out there, by going
back to the philosophies and writings of the forefathers, when other values were considered
virtuous, revered and taught to the younger generation. I must admit that I found the act of
going back into the history of sociology and psychology and exposing the facts that were
uncovered a forte for both the author and the book. Especially since he exposes his findings
and bases his "7 habits" on them.
Personally the message delivered in this book only confirmed some of the thoughts and
conclusions I came to myself, but it didn't teach me anything new. I think that for younger readers
of for people who need a guidance in bringing more efficiency into their personal and work
life, this book will be quite good, as it even has daily planners. I must warn you, that the language
although accessible for a socio-psychology book, it is still very
thick and complex. The best way to find out if it is for you is to peruse it yourselves.

"The Martian" by Andy Weir
I read this book also on kindle at the beginning of February and I loved it. I believe that by now
every single book lover out there with a love for science and space books would have read it as
well, especially with the movie being nominated for multiple Oscars.
I liked that the events were scientifically accurate, nothing was presumed or assumed, everything
was researched. It also provided a context and history for the story - it was not the first team to
go to Mars.
The main character, Mark Watney, was also very well researched. Andy Weir chose as his main
character a smart guy - obviously since he was an astronaut, with a sense of humor, resilient and
inventive.  The idea to grow potatoes on Mars was brilliant and funny at the same time. His
portrayal of NASA and the various teams working there was also genuine. I must admit that I
loved the fact that they got Sean Bean as Mitch Henderson in the movie - his presence at the
"Council of Elrond" meeting was priceless.
Story wise the book keeps you hooked until the end and the reader at times ends up as involved
into the storyv as the rest of the world in the book was as they were rooting for Mark's rescue.
The style is honest and funny - Mark realizes that he is an interstellar pirate. The science is
explained in the way a teacher explains to his students.
If you haven't read this book yet, I encourage you to read it and let me know what you thought
of it.

This must be one of the first books I purchased from my kindle, I got it because it liked the
title - it evoked a certain intelligence and humor of the author. I finished the book rather fast,
in mid February and I liked it.
The story is told only from the perspective of the main character, Libby (Elizabeth) Miller,
a 30-something year old woman who finds out that she has cancer and later on that same
time her high school sweetheart turned husband confesses that he is gay. Completely upset
and feeling lost, she decides to divorce him, sell their apartment and go on a one last
trip to the Caribbean before she would die, as she decides not to undergo treatment
and suffer like her mother did when she and her twin brother were younger.
What happens and how the whole trip turn out, as well as how to deal with such a
devastating news - like having cancer, will show that life should be lived as it comes and
one must not strive for the perfect life because that will only make one more miserable
in the end.
The storyline is full of unexpected events with a funny twist, that seem to have the initial
tendency to work against the main character, however their role is not to fight her, but to
fight her stubbornness (which at times gets quite annoying) to give up on her life, because
it was not as perfect as she envisioned.
The book is easy to read and is not presumptuous. It is a nice read for a vacation.

"1Q84" by Haruki Murakami
I read this 1318 pages book from the end of December until mid March. I had it in
paperback, one volume encompassing all 3 books. Haruki Murakami must be together
with Neil Gaiman, one of those authors whose books I love to read.
I have been acquainted with his writing more than 10 years ago by my beloved and esteemed
literature teacher and ever since I have been reading every book written by him I could get
my hands on. The world he describes in his books although they might appear similar to our
day to day world, are fantastic, the kind of fantastic that seeps slightly and smoothly distorting
the real life just enough to change the life of its characters.
1Q84 is the alternate 1984 where Aomame and Tengo end up via separate ways. The story
gradually and slowly builds around a fantastic world where two Mons govern the sky and
Little People seem to know the rules better than the humans living in it. Aomame is a skilled
trainer, working as a paid professional killer on the side.
Tengo is a Math's teacher, writing books on the side as a passion. The world changes as Tengo
agrees to ghost write a novella written initially by a young girl, Eriko Fukada under the alias
Fuka Eri.  The novella, "Air Chrysalis" becomes an instant hit and bestseller, but this brings on a
world of trouble on the two main characters. I do not want to spoil more of the story, but
Aomame and Tengo are connected and the reason why will be slowly unwrapped in the book.
The book is written mostly from Amomame's and Tengo's perspective, in alternating chapters
written from their perspectives. But the reader will soon discover commonalities between
the two characters without the narrative explicitly pointing them out.
Like all Haruki Murakami's books this one also has music. From jazz to classical, the music
fills the background of the story, giving it light and color. You will also find an entire array of
symbols, authors, ideas and myths from various parts of the world, all which play an important
part of the story, although they might not seem like that.

"The Miniaturist" by Jessie Burton
I admit, I caved to all the rave and fame this book has generated everywhere, when I got this
book in paperback at a bookstore earlier this year. I thought this will be an interesting book, the
title certainly suggested that, as well as the presentation of the book. However, it isn't. I know
an entire cohort of fans will jump at my throat for what I will write below, but it is my honest opinion.
The book apparently is inspired by the actual miniature cabinet owned by Petronella Oortman
Brandt, which Jessie Burton saw at a museum in The Netherlands. However the story has nothing
to do with it, which I have no problem with. What I didn't like about this book is that she crammed
to may topics that were a problem in the 17th century Netherlands and it ends up presenting
the social issues, rather than bringing a literary value. I do acknowledge that sexual orientations,
what we now understand as female rights in particular and human rights in general, and racism
were real problems at that time and that the way in which the humanity dealt with them at that
time was outrageously inappropriately aggressive. Nonetheless I feel like the story in this book
lacks the realism it so strongly tries to show. I feel that the time an energy that were invested into
polishing the surface of the narrative, rather than the backbones of the story, are not enough to
save it or to give it literary value.
To say some words about the story Nella Oortman marries at 18 the much older and richer
merchant Johannes Brandt and some months later she comes to live with him in his house in
Amsterdam, where she meets his sister, Marin, their maid, Cornelia and their black manservant,
Otto. As a marriage gift, Johannes gives Nella a miniature cabinet version of their new house and
Nella finds the add of a miniaturist, which she engages to deliver her various tiny objects to fill her
cabinet with. I do not want to spoil anything, but I didn’t feel any mystery concerning the miniaturist,
it wa smore like an absent character - which makes naming the book after it an interesting attempt
at style and creativity from the author's side. Too bad this was poorly explored within the book.
But there is a good part to this book, Marin Brandt. She is a well built character and what the
book misses to express, seems to be concentrated in her creation.

"The Gun Seller" by Hugh Laurie
I flew through this book on my Kindle. I love me some British books. If they have a way of
hooking you to it with some added mystery bonus, even better.
Hugh Laurie is  known to the world among other things, first as Dr. House in the eponymous
American TV series, secondly as Stephen Fry's partner in the British comedy program "A Bit of Fry
and Laurie", thirdly as the blues composer, collector and singer/ performer and lastly, most recently,
as the bad guy Richard Onslow Roper from the TV series "The Night Manager". All this supports him
as a well versed multifaceted author, who delivers a very complex, yet funny and well written book
about how guns are marketed, sold, and eventually stopped from being sold. The fact that in
"The Night Manager" his character is the total opposite of the main character of his book, is just
proof to this statement.
The story is pretty simple and starts right away, without too much preparation, Thomas Lang finds
himself unwillingly entangled in a battle between those who want to sell last generation guns and
other weapons by inventing and supporting a terrorist act, and those who spy on them. His only
solution will be to infiltrate the artificially created terrorist group and try as best he can to stop
them from supporting the gun selling.
The writing is highly complex and certainly intellectually polished, the depicted images are
convoluted, but without being dry or heavy. But the underlying tone has a fun note to it. The main
character always keeps something up his sleeve, which makes for a dynamic and great read, getting
the reader hooked into the book from beginning until end.

"High-Rise" by J. G. Ballard
This really short book, I read on my Kindle going to and coming from work. I was intrigued by it,
after I saw the trailer to the movie that was made after it starring Tom Hiddleston, Jeremy Irons
and Luke Evans.
The book tells the story about an up rise in a huge modern 40 stories, 2000 apartments building
between its occupants. The inhabitants live split on social scales from the poorest living on the
lowest floor to the most rich on the upper ones. As the riot starts, they ally themselves based
on floors and interests and fight each other with everything they have on hand.
The presented events, although distopic, are in an unbiased and strong language. The author
doesn't take any of his character's side. The story is told from three characters perspective, each
a representative of the lower (Richard Wilder - the documentary maker with animalic appearance
and tendencies), middle (Dr. Richard Laing - the medical professor, recently divorced who looks
for a place to start his life anew) and upper (Anthony Royal - the architect who helped design
the building) classes and floors.
J. G. Ballard didn't start on writing a beautiful story, he wanted to write a serious, heavy story
about the human nature and how easy it can be to forfeit the humanity and fall into instinctual 
endencies of the basic kind. It did remind me of "Lord of the Flies", but without the innocence
and a lot of calculated animalic behavior.

As I write this, I am currently reading:
"Face Paint" by Lisa Eldridge, an interesting account on the history of why and how people
used make-up during the ages, as well as a radiography on the business behind, it written by one
of the best make-up artists and beauty industry creative Directors.
"Smokeand Mirrors" by Neil Gaiman, a collection of short stories and poetry (a pleasant surprise
on my part - I didn't know he wrote poetry), showing glimpses of his mind and presenting
condensed and imaginative stories.
"TheNight Manager" by John le Carré, I know, together with "High-Rise", this shows a trend in
my reading habits (movies with Tom Hiddlestone inspired by books), but I thought it was about
time I get to reading some spy stuff from one of the writers everyone raves about.
More on these books, after I finish them.

Did you read these books? What was your impression?
What did you read? What do you like to read?
Let me know,  I would love to read your thoughts.

Take care,
Alex.

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16 Apr 2016

Books. New Books January - March

Hello dear fellow book lovers,

Today I will share with you the books I acquired since I bought my Kindle about which I wrote here.
I love reading actual honest to God paper books. Especially when I am at home, with a cup of tea or before I go to bed - it is my favorite evening ritual after I finish my bead time beauty routine. I also believe that a full book case is the sign of a smart and open minded household.
New books pile


It took me some time to write this post, because I was waiting on the last book I ordered to arrive.
Without further ado, here are the books:

I think this is the first biography I have in my book collection. Mrs. Garanča is a Latvian mezzo-soprano with an impeccable vocal technique, who worked for every note and part she ever sung, and a mother of two daughters. She learned to speak German all on her own and she speaks it perfectly now, the fact that she wrote  her biography in German is a proof to this. She recently successfully performed in "Roberto Devereux" at the Metropolitan Opera in New York and won an Opera News Award. I have been listening to her sing for years and when I heard she released a biography, I wanted to get my hands on it, because she is one of the women out there I admire for their strength, talent and perseverance. 
The title means "Really important are the shoes", which shows that not only is she talented, but has also kept her sense of humor. I cannot wait to read the book and report back to you on it.


This books contains Jane Austen's unfinished works and early writing experiments. I love her books and this book was missing from my collection. I believe I now have the complete collection of all her works.

I am having a hankering to read more of Kathy Reich's books ever since I finished her second bok, "Death du jour". I like her narrative discourse, her main character, Temperance Brennan, and the way in which she explains the scientific facts that are the basis of all her books. Her books have the perfect blend of science, mystery, murder, intelligence and writingcreativity.  I believe the fact that she is an Anthropologist is the source of her imagination. She also has a very good sense of suspense, which ties me to the book until I finish it. Oh and she has a cat, Birdie. :)
In case you didn't know that yet, her books are the inspiration of the series "Bones", where Stephen Fry makes his appearance at one point.

"Die Betrogene" by Charlotte Link and "Die Lebenden und die Toten" by Nele Neuhaus
I got these books when I was in Austria, I get a German book every time I am in a German speaking country. I love reading books written in German by native authors and in this case, double win, German murder mysteries.
"Die Betrogene" - the betrayed one - is a book about a police woman who investigates the gruesome murder of her beloved father and judging on the name of the book, uncovers some nasty secrets in the process.
"Die Lebenden und die Toten" - the living and the dead - is also about a police woman who investigates gruesome murders of older women without any friends or family.
I will get back to you on how I found the books after I finish them.

"The Museum of Extraordinary Things" by Alice Hoffman
I believe I heard Sanne talk about this book and it caught my eye when I saw it in the bookstore. It is a book that is set in 1911's New York, about a circus girl, Coralie, (direct reference to "Coraline" by Nein Gaiman, maybe?) who was raised in the Museum of Extraordinary Things and a handsome young immigrant, Eddie, who is passionate about photographic documentation. These two meet and investigate a case of a missing girl.
I chose this book because I love the setting - New York in 1911. It is a time I find interesting and fascinating at the same time, immediately after the Industrial Revolution, when people discovered gadgets, the "modern life" and beautiful art was still being made (Art Nouveau), before the 1st World War produces a radical shift in the life of everyone.

"The Miniaturist" by Jesse Burton
Ok, Sanne is also responsible for this purchase. I read this book as I wa son holiday, I thought it will be an interesting holiday read. It is a book about a young girl, Nella Oortman, who marries the much older and way richer merchant Johannes Brandt and moves into Amsterdam with him, his sister, Marin Brandt and their two servants Cornelia, the maid, and Otto, the black man who helps around the house. As a wedding gift Johannes gives Nella a miniature version of the new house she is a mistress of.
The book is set in 1686 and criticizes the huge class and gender differences in the golden age of The Netherlands. The book is very polished, does have a feminist side, but I feel that the story line suffers from both of these two aspects. I feel that if the writer would have dedicated more time to the story and less to the underlying aspects, then the story would have been much better.

"Smoke and Mirrors", "Trigger Warnung" by Neil Gaiman
These are two short stories collections to keep company to the other collection I have "M is for Margic". I love Neil Gaiman's stories, his narrative discourse is honest, his characters are so real you could touch them and the events they go through are just full of imagination and color. I love reading at least one short story a night before I go to bed, they are condensed and glimpses in diverse forms into Neil Gaiman's imagination.
Currently reading this books is the only thing that keeps me from devouring Kathy Reichs books as we speak.

"The Sandman. Volume 1 Preludes & Nocturnes" by Neil Gaiman
When I went to the comic book store in Bucharest to buy a present for a friend I spent a long time looking at the various comic books and when I saw they had "The Sandman" series, I could not help myself. Don't tell me anything about this comic, I can hardly wait to start reading it. The next volumes are on my wishlist already.

What books did you get recently? And what made you chose those books?
What books did you read recently? And what did you think about them?
I would love to read about your thoughts.

Alex.

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8 Apr 2016

My take on beauty

Hello dear reader,

I have been thinking for a while now on how to write this post and today inspiration finally hit me. How to better explain my view on the whole topic of beauty: the industry, the marketing, the need, the trends, the psychology and sociology behind it.

Starting from the beginning. My mum, unlike most mums didn’t teach me anything about beauty when I was younger. I learned it all by myself and now looking back on it, I think it was a better way of getting into beauty. Probably due to this and due to a complicated relationship with acne from my early 20s (the products marketed in Romania as appropriate acne treatment are anything but and the ones that work are either expensive or not available), I started doing research on the way beauty products work, how they are made and what the different ingredients mean.
At the same time I learned how to use the products properly. One thing I will never accept from a beauty company is not explaining how their products work and are meant to be used. Assuming that people know how to use them. Well... you know what they say - when you assume, you are usually wrong.

Long story short, I watched youtube videos and read a lot of blogs. And except some very few knowledgeable and informed people, the internet is full of self-proclaimed "beauty gurus". People, who just because they have a closer relationship with their make-up products than with a significant other and because they spend an astronomical amount of money on an even stellar amount of products, think they are an authority in all things beauty. Hence the "beauty guru". But unfortunately, these people do only one thing. They sell the products. Alright two things - they are a cheap marketing tool for the bigger companies.

Leaving all my ranting aside, I believe that the internet should have more people who are smart and know what they talk about, like, but not limited to: Lisa Eldridge, Caroline Hirons, Sam and Nick, Agata.
I might not be a chemist, but I am smart (it took me 30 years to say this, so I don't care what people will believe of me), do have some experience with sensitive, mixt and acne prone skin, being a proud owner of such a skin type and I do my research. That's right people, the fundamental of all learning - research. Hence the name of my blog.
Some of my beauty products

I know that now the "minimalism" way of life is fashionable these days. Trend which I consider superfluous, since I believe that "minimalism" is ruled by common sense and should not be a trend as such, but rather a way of life. At the same time I am part of the target clientele of the beauty industry - a woman with a good job, who can afford and is interested in
beauty products.
This being said, I try to follow a set of rules (that before I realized were ingrained in my way of thinking as a result of my Marketing and Project Management training):
  • Reduce waste: Whenever I chose a beauty product, I always check the internet (by which I obviously mean the opinion of the people above mentioned) to make sure that the product will match my needs and I will obviously use it up. I hate throwing away unused products or sending them back to the internet store I purchased it from.
  • Use up products: Once I purchase a product (I don't have to send it back), I will use it up fully. I try not to purchase a similar product, not to fall into the well of "hauls", "Holy Grails" and "must haves" and get 3 moisturizers and 5 cleansers. (Yes, I know, I am again picking on the "beauty gurus").
  • Good quality: One of the things I hate most about the whole beauty industry is the poor quality disguised in glamour. That being said, I do not denigrate the cheaper brands that make great products. But I do feel that a lot of products are being over "hyped" or "Holy Grail-ed" artificially. However it is my hard earned money I pay for the products I use, so I am allowed to say my opinion and want to get good value for the price I pay.
    Since I live in Romania it is very hard for me to get the products I want - most companies don't market their products here and most websites don't deliver cheaply to Bucharest, not to mention I can't get a sample to test it. Therefore I research a product before I purchase it (online, most of the times).
  • Appropriate formulation: It ties to all the rules mentioned above - if the formulation contains the active ingredients that are good for my skin, then they have a higher probability to be good for my skin. From my experience most of the time the brands that are either created by a Dermatologist Dr. or have one on staff produce the best products containing the appropriate active ingredients and few additional fillers.
    Due to this I learned how to make some of the products myself.

This is what you will find on this blog related to beauty products.
What rules do you follow when you purchase your beauty products?
What do you feel about the beauty industry?

Cheers,
Alex.


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